tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16019207.post116950673959773040..comments2023-11-02T00:52:39.684-07:00Comments on Ho Hum...twiddle a dee!!!: Dear Not so smart DaddyBarneyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00940448784322244172noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16019207.post-1170016320312746232007-01-28T12:32:00.000-08:002007-01-28T12:32:00.000-08:00I always relate to your stories of your ex. My so...I always relate to your stories of your ex. My son, now 21, has not talked to his dad in probably 3 or 4 years. His dad said some words to him that can never be apologized enough for and my son is a stubborn one.........he does not and will not forget. Some men are such idiots. Do you ever wonder what fog you were in when you choose the father of your kids? I consider my choice of my children's father my biggest life mistake. My second biggest life mistake is that I did not leave him much earlier than I did, and lived in a fantasy land that it was better to have two parents than just one good one.Aprilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04708751000193870576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16019207.post-1169982078686485202007-01-28T03:01:00.000-08:002007-01-28T03:01:00.000-08:00What an asshat. Fortunately, K-man has you and th...What an asshat. Fortunately, K-man has you and that's good enough. Does his father not realise that you only get a short time with your kids anyway before they grow up and get on with their lives? She sounds like an asshat too. My condolences.Ozfemmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11075356134336964558noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16019207.post-1169732368211281862007-01-25T05:39:00.000-08:002007-01-25T05:39:00.000-08:00Just popping in to see how you and your kids are d...Just popping in to see how you and your kids are doing. <BR/><BR/>Oh and to say "HI"<BR/><BR/>:-)Weekends Offhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06310814843135512710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16019207.post-1169668642761958152007-01-24T11:57:00.000-08:002007-01-24T11:57:00.000-08:00~D~ - Thank you for your words.. I feel lucky he h...~D~ - Thank you for your words.. I feel lucky he has me too and not just his "father"<BR/><BR/>~DB~ Sadly, his father wont understand it, the letter is above and beyond him.. to much pot smoking in the 80's has fried his brain.. <BR/>and this letter was the 3rd one that I wrote.. the first one was nothing but bad words and slams<BR/>2nd, less bad words.. and just a bunch of dig's at him<BR/>and the 3rd.. much better.. <BR/><BR/>You are correct on the religious zealot... as I have tried to talk to her time and time again, I realize her intentions (in her heart) are for the best.. but.. Im not into relgion.. and my kids can figure out what God they want to worship when they become of age!Barneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00940448784322244172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16019207.post-1169666906651090312007-01-24T11:28:00.000-08:002007-01-24T11:28:00.000-08:00Excellent letter. I hope that the ex got the point...Excellent letter. I hope that the ex got the point. I agree with you on many points, especially the part about the dad needing to grow up and stop being selfish. <BR/><BR/>One thing on the "Holy Roller" situation... in my limited experience, there's very little that can be done about those who confuse religion with a club of merit and exclusion, or some other fanatical zealot nonsense. Even if your ex comes to his senses, his mother's faith and conviction may not allow her to come to hers.The Bizzahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17797871556831556557noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16019207.post-1169560432812977242007-01-23T05:53:00.000-08:002007-01-23T05:53:00.000-08:00Gosh I'm sorry for Kman. He doesn't deserve that c...Gosh I'm sorry for Kman. He doesn't deserve that crap! Thank God he has you!Weekends Offhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06310814843135512710noreply@blogger.com