tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16019207.post1363967450386094607..comments2023-11-02T00:52:39.684-07:00Comments on Ho Hum...twiddle a dee!!!: Just checking in...Barneyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00940448784322244172noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16019207.post-62545735283669777472009-07-10T11:30:09.134-07:002009-07-10T11:30:09.134-07:00Hey Barney,
Sounds like you feel better today, i...Hey Barney, <br /><br />Sounds like you feel better today, it's good to hear. <br /><br />Behind your children, put YOU first. It's your time, you've worked too hard getting to this place, don't let someone else pull you in the wrong direction. Don't ever look back.<br /><br />No doubt in my mind you'll get thru this just fine, with lessons learned and a fresh outlook. <br /><br /><br />Enjoy your weekend!<br /><br />PS, I would invite you (or anyone else) to my blog, if I had one. I've created a profile so I could comment on others. <br /><br />Maybe I should start one....lurker in columbushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12006493093178488795noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16019207.post-22374658786432286272009-07-10T10:39:40.920-07:002009-07-10T10:39:40.920-07:00Thanks Lurker.... you are right in so many ways.. ...Thanks Lurker.... you are right in so many ways.. It's time for me to find someone who can take care of me... Ive never had that, I have always had relationships where I have to take care of them. It's time I break that cycle!<br /><br />My kids are my #1 priority... things are going to be great! We all will be great!<br /><br />I really appreciate the words of wisdom and advice!Barneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00940448784322244172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16019207.post-87497958916986287532009-07-09T17:11:56.149-07:002009-07-09T17:11:56.149-07:00You're going to be OK, Barney.
I'm glad ...You're going to be OK, Barney. <br /><br />I'm glad you declined his invitation, his recovery is no place for you. You need to focus on healing and your children.<br /><br />Once a victim always a victim, and you're not. Like you said, pull yourself up and move the fuck on. <br /><br />No, you're not cold nor callous. You've come this far by yourself, if you're looking to add someone to your life, make sure he contributes and is not always taking. Find someone you can lean on for a while, someone to hold you up for once.<br /><br />Work on completely cutting him from your life or he'll drain you of all he can. Your children need you, all of you.<br /><br />You'll be OK, and you know it. But it's a drag being in the middle of it.<br /><br />Hang in there, Barney.....lurker in columbushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12006493093178488795noreply@blogger.com