Monday, January 26, 2009 come true

Remember when you were a kid, and you made that mistake of walking into your parents bedroom, just as they were getting it on?
Remember how grossed out and disgusted you were?
Traumatized for life?

Well, my daughter walked in on me and my S.O. last night.. the difference is, my bedroom door was shut and locked, and my little girl broke the lock on the door and walked right in. Then proceeded to yell, scream, and throw a temper tantrum on how sick and disgusted we are, she hates me, I'm suppose to wait until she is grown and out of the house before I proceed with my life!

Long story short...
Remember me telling ya'll earlier on, how my long lost love from my teen years looked me up on myspace? We struck up a convo...and 3 months later.. he's moved in. (yes I know.. way soon... )
So far so good.. things are working out really well....
Except for my beautiful baby girl...has turned into the spawn of the devil!

She's doing, saying, reacting, lying, stealing whatever you can think of to rip it all apart.
Who is she? Ive tried talking to her, Ive tried to understand her, Ive even given in to her demands to make peace in the house. I have become the biggest push over in the history of Mommy hood!

But I'm here to tell everyone..right here, right now

She will no longer act like she is the parent in MY house
She will no longer dictate to me what is going to happen and how it is going to be
She will no longer undermine my ever word and my every action

My biggest nightmare, of having a teenage child who is beyond control has come true...

I just want to lay down and sleep and wish this nightmare away
I know that I cant allow her to continue down this destructive path
I must take back control of my house

Hell...she already tells me she hates me..
what else can go wrong?


Amorous Rocker said...

That's awful. I've never told my mother that I hate her. I've never even thought it honestly.

I'm sorry you're dealing with this but I believe you'll get it under control. That won't be easy but it sounds like you've got your mind set on kicking ass and that's good, lol.

I hope things get better! :)

Barney said...

Thanx AR... it's gonna be hell..
but Im ready for the fight!!!

"T" said...

I have zero advice. My 2 girls are 5 and 7. Sometimes the 7 year old scares me. I can totally see her giving us hell by the teenage years.

Sometimes I wonder about going to parenting classes. I've heard they help a lot, especially when the kids are young.

Good luck, hope for the best and stay strong!

janice said...

WOW, that is a parents worst nightmare!

I know you'll regain control in you home. A good kid can be a good kid again.

How has you son been through all of this? What does he think of his sister's (bad)behavior?

Anonymous said...

What else can go wrong? Well for starters one day she can come home and bring a guy like me home for dinner. If you go to my blog you will see why I say that...

My advice is to embrace the chaos. I know I do. I have jokesters of my own and they pull the same rank and file on me more or less. They really don't mean it when they say they hate you...They are just angry over stuff they can't control. They are like dogs chasing after cars, they wouldn't know what to do if they caught one.

Now if they come into your room brandishing a weapon? That's something different altogether....

Sexie Sadie~ said...

Oh, I told my mother I hated her when I was that age. It's so mean, I feel for you. Being on the receiving end of rage is so difficult when it's from someone you love. Hang in there. She's hormonal, her life is in turmoil, her feelings are valid because she owns them.

Yours, of course, are too.


Krystal said...

Now, when you asked what else could go wrong, that was rhetorical right?

I'd take the door off her room to teach her a little respect for the privacy of others. But I'm evil like that.